When the baby is very young, he likes to take a bath, and everything is at the mercy of his mother or father. When the baby is 1-2 years old, he has a certain sense of autonomy and begins to understand what is fear, so some babies are afraid of bathing. Especially some children are afraid after taking a bath and bumping. What should mothers do?

case

Last Friday, when bathing the child (two and three months old), the child accidentally knocked on the toilet when he bowed his head, comforted him for a while and continued to wash. On that day, a small basin was put in the big basin, because she accidentally put it the first day, and found that she liked to sit in the small basin, so she added a small basin (the size that can sit in). As a result, she slipped on Friday and hurt the child. She began to cry.

I wash the bath with my child. I wash it first and let her play with water. I wash it after I wash it. I was washing it that day, so I couldn’t avoid wrestling in time. In the next two days, as soon as the child entered the bathroom, he began to cry and scream, unwilling to take a bath, which was useless. These two days were forced to wash in crying. Children used to like to go in and play with water (but they didn’t want to wash their faces and hair). What should we do now? There is no other suitable place to take a bath!

The point is, is it possible to change places?

An interesting phenomenon in human growth is that the development of 0-6-year-old children repeats the whole development of human civilization, from water to crawling and then to upright walking, from monosyllabic expression and expression to using fixed words, then developing simple sentences, all the way to the expression of profound language system. Nature makes people have smaller strength and shorter stature when they are younger, and their walking speed is also very slow, so they are easy to fall and bump. At this time, because of their short stature and light weight, they will not hurt when they fall down. Because of their slow speed and small strength, they will not bump into any place or endanger their lives. Therefore, at this age, people fall and bump the most in their lives, Nature makes people gain the most psychological endurance about injury when the degree of injury is the smallest, which lays the foundation for the injury to be experienced in life. People have to live among all kinds of materials and people all their lives. They will inevitably collide with all kinds of materials and collide with all kinds of people. If they don’t experience enough body collision and collision with each other in childhood, their inner endurance will be particularly fragile. If they collide slightly, they will be unable to bear it. If they are collided once, they will be afraid to stay away from the place where they collide And things, there will be no place for people to go. So in childhood, let the child move freely in an environment without big injury. As long as there is no injury, such as the edge of the basin, the edge of the wall, the corner of the polished table and so on, it doesn’t matter if you touch it, but it hurts.

I don’t know whether the children in the case are brought up by the elderly or the nanny. They are easy to restrict the children’s freedom for the sake of the children’s safety, which makes the children lose the opportunity of development. They think that it is the greatest responsibility of the nurturers to keep the children from bumping. They don’t know the fact that people need to experience and experience their growth. Children in the excessive care, too little experience of bumping, so bumping a child is particularly nervous. If adults are particularly nervous when they bump, children will be very afraid.

Warm reminder

Generally, after bumping, adults should not call loudly, do not leave the bumping place immediately, wait until the children do not cry, and then leave; the next time they enter the bathtub, adults should be very relaxed, do not rush to put the children in, and coax the children to play for a while. If the child just plays every time and is not willing to take a bath, he can take the method of wiping with a wet towel nearby. When the child is not so afraid of the bathtub, he can go in with the child again. Don’t let the child leave the adult body, wash the child out as soon as possible, show it to others, and the adult can wash it again.

The bathtub is a dangerous place, because the basin is very slippery, and all bathtubs are very hard. If water is put in the bathtub, it will be very dangerous for the child to fall down and fall on the ground. Moreover, although the water is rarely let down, the child will be shocked when the water is suddenly lifted up and hit his face or inhaled into his nose. Therefore, before the age of five, children take a bath. Adults must wash their children alone. Adults had better not bathe with their children, let alone let them walk around and play in the adult bathtub. They should wash the children first, and then wash the children.

In this case, the mother can also try to change a bath basin of other colors and other qualities for the child, which may be accepted by the child.

&In the end, mothers will see if they can find out what their babies are afraid of: the size of the bathtub, the amount of water, the temperature of the water, etc., or because an event (such as a sudden slide in the water) has left a shadow on their babies’ hearts. If you want to know more about the health habits that children need to cultivate, please lock in the next continuous update of Baibai safety net